Will They Cry Again? Dance Moms Reunite For 2024 Special

Dance Moms is back! The show that introduced the world to stars such as JoJo Siwa and Maddie Ziegler is having a reunion in 2024. What are they going to talk about? Well, there’s no shortage of drama and controversies surrounding the show. Let’s take a look back at over a decade’s worth of Dance Moms and see what they’ve all been doing prior to this reunion.

Reunion

The reunion is set to air on May 1, 2024 and it brings back many of the original members of the Dance Moms cast. Siwa, Kalani Hilliker, Brooke Hyland, Paige Hyland, Chloe Lukasiak, and Kendall Vertes will all be there.

So will their mothers: Jessalynn Siwa, Kira Hilliker, Kelly Hyland, Christi Lukasiak and Jill Vertes. They’re all in the trailer the Lifetime channel has released to promote its new show.

Dance Moms

Dance Moms was all about the dancers of the Abby Lee Dance Company, their mothers, and Abby Lee Miller herself. It was controversial because of how harsh Miller had been on her students.

The mothers were constantly yelling, the daughters were constantly being told they had to perform better, and all in all it was a perfect storm of car-crash reality TV. People couldn’t look away!

Pop-culture sensation

Lifetime put out a trailer for the reunion on March 6, declaring that it would be a “two-hour special event” which would see the moms and daughters looking back at the show “that became a worldwide pop-culture sensation.”

The trailer started off with the cast happily partying together and popping Champagne bottles. But fans of the previous series won’t be surprised to learn that events soon took a darker turn.

Ruined

The trailer showed footage of one particularly infamous moment in Dance Moms history. That right: we’re talking about the notorious coming-to-blows between Kelly Hyland and the now-disgraced dance teacher Miller.

“The fight happened, and we never danced again,” Kelly’s daughter Brooke said. “I feel like I ruined your life and your dance career,” Kelly said, as other people who were involved cried and left the set.

Nasty things

After that part of the trailer, the topic of conversation turned to the toxic teaching techniques utilized by Miller. “It’s hard to say I forgive her when she did so many nasty things to me,” Paige said. 

“I thought I wasn’t enough, like, in every single way,” a clearly distraught Chloe Lukasiak remembered while choking back the tears. But more on Miller and her ignominious fate later.

Declined invites

JoJo Siwa then took a moment to slam the cast members who hadn’t wanted to show up for the reunion. “Them not being here is kind of like, ‘Let me erase my past, pretend it never happened, shove it down the drain,’ when that’s why you are who you are,” she said.

In the days before the trailer, JoJo had written on social media, “Grateful for this day! For everyone wondering about the few people missing, everyone was invited today but only some wanted to be here.”

Traumatized

In the YouTube comments underneath the trailer, people slammed JoJo for criticizing the absent girls. “Nah JoJo had no right to talk about Maddie, Kenzie and Nia like that,” one person said.

Another said, “You can tell that time of their lives was very traumatic. I also think that Nia is busy with school. JoJo wasn’t there that long, so for her to be dissing them is kinda messed up tbh.”

“Very stressful”

We’ve already heard from Maddie and Kenzie about what they think of their Dance Moms past, though. They did an interview with Elite Daily in May 2021 — and they didn’t hold back with their opinions.

“We got pulled out of school every day to go to dance and film a TV show, so that was not normal at all,” Maddie said. And Kenzie declared, “Our teacher, the environment we were in — it was all very stressful as a kid.”

The Zieglers now

Dance Moms did set the girls up for fame, though. Maddie went on to collaborate with the singer Sia, and grabbed some acting credits, including a small role in the Steven Spielberg version of West Side Story.

And Kenzie has also worked with Sia, plus she has built herself a massive following online. By and large the sisters have done very well for themselves in the cut-throat world of entertainment.

Dissociated

Maddie became the more famous of the two sisters. She’s a genuinely talented dancer, but she still carries trauma from her Dance Moms experience, which to most observers did seem unbelievably hard on a kid.

“I had more stress at that age than I did once I left,” she told Cosmopolitan in 2022. “I have dissociated so much from that time. I’ll see fans post scenes from Dance Moms and I’m like, ‘I literally don’t even remember that happening.’”

Bad lessons

Maddie remembered that throughout her Dance Moms career she’d believed that “to not win, or to have another girl beat me, was the end of the world.” And that was because of Miller.

“My dance teacher taught that if you don’t get the trophy, if you don’t get the crown, you are less than, which is the worst way to train a kid,” she said. “It carries into other life lessons.”

Toxic environment

And when Maddie finally quit the show, Miller totally lost it. “She was distraught,” Maddie remembered. In fact, viewers of Dance Moms with sharp memories might recall Miller locking herself in a room.

“For the longest time, we felt so guilty,” Maddie said. “She trained me, she helped me, but also, I knew I would be okay without her and I was sick of being in a toxic environment. I was like, “This is not for me. I can’t do this.” I haven’t spoken to her since.”

Miller’s response

Miller read that interview and felt compelled to respond to it. “What I don't understand [about] the pressure, the ‘toxic’ situation — if it was so toxic, why did you keep doing it?” she said in a video.

She claimed that she’d “loved” Ziegler, and had been “fighting for everything for these kids to be the best that they could be on television.” She said, “I know that what I did for Maddie, with Maddie, helped her succeed.”

Super-negative

What about Nia Sioux, the third girl who didn’t return for the reunion? Well, like her fellow dancers, she didn’t have a great time on Dance Moms, regardless of her own talent.

In 2021 she’d told Forbes, “As a child, it was a lot to endure: a lot of yelling, a lot of swearing, being put down all the time… The show was super-negative, but I try my best to turn it into a positive.”

Confrontation

The girls returning for the reunion haven’t exactly had easy rides either. In 2014 Paige Hyland had actually gone so far as to sue Miller, claiming that she’d outright physically abused the young dancers on her show.

The court documents were made public in 2017 and they alleged, “Miller even tossed a chair during a confrontation with Paige while [her mother] Kelly Hyland was not present, causing Paige to run from the room terrified, as she feared she would be physically injured by Miller.”

Fraud

So what happened to Miller? Well, it’s not pretty. First off, there was her arrest for fraud. In 2015 Miller was indicted for bankruptcy fraud, concealment of bankruptcy assets, and false bankruptcy declarations. 

She ended up being sentenced to one year and a day in federal prison. She began her sentence in July 2017 and was released in May 2018 due to good behavior.

Terminated

And Abby’s Dance Moms teaching methodss were highly frowned upon by the Dance Masters of America (DMA) organization, which she had joined in 1986. That body terminated her membership in 2012.

“DMA feels [Dance Moms] is a total misrepresentation of our dance educators and their students and is detrimental to the dance profession,” the organization said in a statement at the time.

More controversy

And then there were the allegations of racism. Needless to say, this was a big deal for the students of color at Miller’s dance school. It transpired that they had been harboring some major grievances.

In 2020 — during the height of the Black Lives Matter movement — Miller posted a black square to Instagram in supposed solidarity. This spurred a dance mom from one of the later seasons, Adriana Smith, to allege that Miller had been racist towards her. 

Allegations

Smith wrote, “A statement from her that sticks in my mind to this day during my time of [Dance Moms season eight] is, ‘I know you grew up in the HOOD with only a box of eight crayons, but I grew up in the Country Club with a box of 64 — don’t be stupid.”

“That, my friends, is not something or a statement that can be Googled. Ask yourself, What does that mean? This to me shows that you think you are better than me and in high rank and altogether superior to ME!”

More accusations

Then another dance mom, Camille Bridges, wrote an email to E! News where she too accused Miller of having racist attitudes. She claimed that this had affected her daughter, dancer Camryn.

“[Miller] tried to spin Camryn as being the poor one and there on scholarship. I shut that down immediately,” Camille said. “She loves appropriating our culture and never appreciating it. She did not give black choreographers on the show acknowledgement of their work.”

Cutting ties

Miller attempted an apology after that. “I realize that racism can come not just from hate, but also from ignorance,” she wrote on social media. “No matter the cause, it is harmful, and it is my fault.”

She went on, “While I cannot change the past or remove the harm I have done, I promise to educate myself, learn, grow, and do better.” But it wasn’t enough. The Lifetime network canceled a new planned show with Miller, Abby’s Virtual Dance-Off, and cut all ties with her.

Uncomfortable

Watching the show now, it’s full of uncomfortable moments involving Miller. There was even one occasion where she kissed the 11-year-old Maddie on the lips before making her kiss her male duet partner.

“I shouldn’t have my first kiss like this,” Ziegler said on the show. And she was absolutely right. Considering that, it’s really no surprise she didn’t come back for the reunion.

A problematic episode

All the same, it’s also the case that some of the mothers were doing uncomfortable things as well. There was once a particularly controversial moment regarding a dance routine about famous civil rights activist Rosa Parks.

During that episode, Jill Vertes insisted that her daughter Kendall should play Parks, rather than Nia Sioux, who was the only Black dancer on the team. Whether that incident will come up in the reunion remains to be seen.

Changing times

The dancers who are coming back for the reunion — JoJo Siwa, Kalani Hilliker, Brooke Hyland, Paige Hyland, Chloe Lukasiak, and Kendall Vertes — have all changed a lot since their Dance Moms days. 

Generally they’ve all been very successful. And obviously, ahead of the new episode airing, we have no real idea of precisely what will unfold on our screens. But let’s hope that during the reunion, they congratulate each other on their triumphs.

JoJo Siwa

JoJo ended up being one of the biggest names to come out of Dance Moms. She sometimes posts videos on her highly followed TikTok account of her mocking Miller’s screamed orders on the show.

Miller knows about this and she doesn’t seem happy about it. “I’m not aware of JoJo saying hurtful things. She just does these TikTok videos with my voice, and so it makes me look really bad,” she told the U.S. Sun in 2023.

JoJo and Abby

And yet, despite everything, JoJo and Miller seemed to still be friends. “I think she's a really smart kid when it comes to social media, computers, getting her name out there,” Miller said. “There's nothing to repair with JoJo."

She went on, “I just congratulated her, texted her yesterday and she texts right back. No matter what I say, when I say it — even if I'm giving her corrections — she always gets back to me immediately. And she said, ‘I love you. Thank you.’”

Big star

JoJo’s singing career has also taken off massively in recent years. In 2016 she released the anti-bullying music video “Boomerang” and the catchy track’s clip was viewed over 950 million times. 

In 2019 she went on a concert tour, D.R.E.A.M. The Tour, and that too was a hit. So significant has been her rise that the following year she was even named one of the world’s most influential people by Time magazine.

Coming out

One very significant personal event happened with JoJo after that: she came out. In 2021 she took to social media to declare, “Technically I would say that I am pansexual.”

She went on, “Because that's how I have always been my whole life is just like, my human is my human.” Chances are this will be mentioned in the reunion show. JoJo’s mother Jessalynn fully supports her daughter, and she’ll be there too of course.

Kalani Hilliker

Kalani Hilliker may end up discussing her own personal life experiences and issues with the Dance Moms lifestyle. She spoke about them at some length during a 2023 interview with E! Online.

“We never were really allowed to vocalize how we felt,” she said. “And I definitely held a lot in of how I was feeling and what was going on just because I obviously wanted to be the best.”

Really hard

All the same, despite everything, she said she didn’t regret being on the show. “Everything happens for a reason. And I'm so grateful for the show. And I'm so grateful for Abby.”

She went on, “If she didn't bring me on to the show, I wouldn't have the career that I have.” But she did also add, “For me, it was really, really hard. And I obviously have anxiety and other things probably stemming from being on the show.”

Brooke Hyland

Back in 2020 Brooke Hyland had posted a video joking about how Facebook had recommended she add Miller as a friend. The video showed her pulling a face at the mere suggestion.

And yet JoJo, Miller’s friend, didn’t like that. She wrote, “It’s one thing to just not add her back, it’s another to post it.” In the wake of that reaction, Brooke had deleted the post. Will that come up when they reunite?

Paige Hyland

Amid the other controversies stemming from the show, Paige’s lawsuit against Miller was thrown out after a judge ruled there had been insufficient evidence. But she picked herself up and carried on.

She ended up becoming a YouTuber. “I used to watch YouTube videos a lot, so I thought that it would be a good way to interact with my fans and for them to see what I’m doing now,” she told website the International Business Times that year.

Different classes

At the time, Paige was dividing her time by spending one day per month filming content for her YouTube channel, and the rest of it doing schoolwork. She was also still a dancer.

“I dance, but I’m not in a studio right now,” she had told the outlet. “I’m just taking different classes at different places. Different teachers teach different ways, so it’s nice.”

New life

As she grew older, Paige had sought a career away from the dance world. In 2019 she graduated from Franklin Regional High School and went to West Virginia University to study marketing with a minor in Event Planning.

By 2022 she had seemingly stepped away from the limelight altogether: she was working as a marketing intern for the company FlexScreen, and she hadn’t posted anything new to her YouTube channel for nearly a decade.

Chloe Lukasiak

Chloe has been involved in many things since leaving Dance Moms. She’s modeled, appeared in commercials, hosted TV shows, been in music videos, and embarked on a whole new career as a writer.

She launched a project called “Chloe’s Book Club” in 2018 and has been writing short stories, poetry, and segments for anthology books. She’s also said she’d love to write a fantasy book series.

Full circle

In 2023 Chloe announced that she was looking to launch her own dance competition, one where toxic attitudes would absolutely not be encouraged. This was to be called Elevé, and her mother Christi was involved in the planning as well.

She told E! Online that her experience with Dance Moms had inspired her to do it. “I was like, ‘What's my full circle moment with dance? What does that mean for me now as an adult?’” she said.

A difficult sport

She was another one who seemingly didn’t regret her experiences on Dance Moms. "I feel like everything we go through shapes who we are as people," she told E! Online.

She further explained, “Even though it was difficult, at the end of the day anyone who's in a really difficult sport like that goes through some degree of what we went through as well.”

Kendall Vertes

Kendall Vertes went to James Madison University and joined the dance team. “Younger me would be so proud,” she wrote on Instagram in 2023, opposite a picture of herself in the team uniform.

She’s also done a bit of acting, but perhaps her most impressive achievement is the sheer scale of her following on her social media channels: she has over 11 million people hanging on her every word.

Coming up

And now all these strong personalities, and their arguably even more strong-willed mothers, are going to be in a room together for Dance Moms: The Reunion. Surely sparks are going to fly!

Miller is probably wishing she was invited: after all, the conversation is almost inevitably going to turn towards her. We’ll just have to wait with bated breath to see what happens.